It seems like as we grow up, a lot of emphasis is put on the idea of "role models". From a young age, we are encouraged to find a role model and learn from him/her so that we have someone to look up to and help create direction and purpose. As college students, we are in between childhood and adulthood and as we navigate the transition, some of us find ourselves in leadership positions and with it comes the responsibility of being a role model.
When it comes to sexual health, there are a few things to remember as you help others. Whether it is a friend, sibling, classmate or a stranger that comes to you seeking advice, a few things can help the conversation be safe, helpful and meaningful for both of you.
How to be an ally:
- listen and do not tell other people what was said during the private conversation
- be a resource (know of places to go for more services or offer to help look them up)
- watch your body language (most communication is non-verbal)
- be ethical and maintain boundaries
- do not make promises you can't keep
- be accessible
- be trustworthy
- remember, just because you had a similar experience does not mean that the person feels the same way
- don't call yourself an ally, just be one
For more information on teen dating violence, go to the CDC's website
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Very good tips!
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