Sunday, May 9, 2010

Misogyny in the Gay Male Community


Misogyny is defined as a hatred of women.
Thursday a student, faculty and community representative presented a panel discussion about the impact of heteronormative gender expectations and dismantled myths surrounding identity, oppression and misogyny.
Topics covered:
- history of misogyny in the gay male community
- racialization of misogyny
- misogyny at DePaul
- misogyny and bisexuality
- misogyny and drag

On the panel was one of the SHA Peer Educators and a third year WGS student, Zach Stafford,
Cyndi Torres graduate student in the School of Education and
Dr. Beth Kelly WGS professor
Thank you to everyone who came out for the event! It was very successful and we had a very important discussion to further educate the DePaul community

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Take Back the Night

TAKE BACK THE NIGHT IS TONIGHT!


As part of Sexual Assault Awareness Month, SHA is teaming up with TBTN for a rally and protest that takes place across the country! Please join us in taking a stand against sexual abuse and assault.

Activities include a rally, guest speakers (SHA!), protests and a speak out.

Two locations: Lincoln Park and the Loop

Meet at 4:45 outside of the Student Center to participate in the Lincoln Park activities
Meet at 6:00 on the 11th floor gallery of the DePaul Center to participate in the Loop activities

We look forward to seeing you there!

Monday, April 26, 2010

Getting the word out

Thanks to the DePaulia, SHA is getting some recognition!

We're happy that the school newspaper is noticing the importance of sexual health education at DePaul and what we're doing to promote it. The paper highlights DePaul's embarrassing ranking as LAST on Trogan's assessment of sexual health information and resources. It also underscores the need for more to be done on campus.



"The thing that we really need students to know is that we really need their voices heard in order to convince the administration that change should happen. Unless students come forward and say that this is important to them, unfortunately, the school feels no reason to change things."
-SHA's staff member, Alicia Oeser


"We want to make sex and sexual health an ongoing discussion at DePaul. We don't want it to just be a one-time thing or event, we want it to always be talked about and the importance of it to be stressed"
-SHA's president, Stephanie DeLacy

Sunday, April 11, 2010

OMG GYT

Get Yourself Tested!

MTV's GYT campaign
is in full swing this month to promote STI awareness and the importance of getting tested.

It is recommended to get an STI screening every 6 months for sexually active people


Here are some local resources for STI testing:
Center on Halstead
www.centeronhalstead.org
- rapid HIV testing (free)

Broadway Youth Center
www.howardbrown.org/byc
*Free services for youth under 24
- syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia testing
- rapid HIV test (oral swab)
- STI treatment

Chicago Women's Health Center
www.chicagowomenshealthcenter.org
*Services provided on a sliding scale
- STI screening


Feel free to contact SHA for further questions on why to go, where to go and how to stay safe
depaulsha@gmail.com

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

What is Consent?









April is SEXUAL ASSAULT AWARENESS MONTH
And, to promote awareness on campus, SHA is doing a campaign to spread the word about consent and what it means to students. Today was our first day having a table in the student center and we got a great response! Look for our "Consent is ______" signs on campus.

Beginning the conversation about consent is a good way to open up communication about sexual assault and how to prevent violence against women. We would love to hear what you have to say. SHA tables will be in the student center this week and next week, so feel free to stop by and share your opinions.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Rape, Health Care, Cartoons...Oh My!

Let me begin with this - I have not read the Health Care Reform Bill.... yet. This essay isn't a critic on the reform, and I will not be injecting my opinion on the bill...yet. However, what needs to be discussed is continuation of the conservative rights usage of racism and misogyny to thrash the Health Care Bill. Like many of the Republicans little metaphors and imagery’s they use to shock or rile up the public, this new plow is however going fairly unnoticed by the majority of society. Consistently over the past few weeks many Republicans have used rape as a metaphor for the new Health Care Reform. What has made it even more disgusting is that today, March 27th, a cartoonist took it all to a whole new level. Below, you will see the new political cartoon drawn by Darleen Click. This graphic picture depicts Pres. Barack Obama leaving the bed of Lady Liberty, having just raped her and stating “You gave all the consent I’ll ever need in November 2008”.

If this picture doesn't show up click HERE.

I know, I know…breath….just breath. Lets dissect the many layers of misogyny, racism, and victim blaming from this disgusting piece.
First, lets discuss the spatial situation going on here and what this all implies. If one looks to the window, it is streaming in a sort of “morning glow”, this could imply it is early in the morning, which implies that he was there all night. Also, with him so callously walking out and stating that he will be coming back, means that Lady Liberty brought him home. From here we already have two implications that this was the “victims fault” – morning and she brought him home. Next on the victim blaming list is the little one-liner, “You gave all the consent I’ll ever need in November 2008.” This is something that within the society at large we see continue to be echoed, “Yes means yes, and no means no,” but we rarely say “Yes can mean NO”, and “Yes! Yes!” can still turn into a, “Get the hell off of me!” The Republicans are using this skewed and inaccurate idea around consent as a weapon against woman or people who suffer from sexual assault. This is stating that when people once say “yes” to being intimate with another person, even if they were just agreeing to one certain sexual act, this means that it is free for all from there. This is infinitely untrue, and is one of the trains of thoughts that allow for the rape culture, which we live in today to flourish. Rape is NEVER okay, no matter what has happened. Rape is sexualized aggression and does not even resemble sex.
Another tool in play in this piece is racism. Racism is something that the Republican right are far to close of friends with, and even better friends with Racism’s brother…subtle racism. Historically, Black men have been depicted as the over eroticized sexual beings that react animalistically in sexual arenas. This dates back to slavery, when White women would have sexual relations with Black men, and once caught would blame it on rape or sexual assault. This is not, however, stripping women of their validity within sexual assault, and also I am not perpetuating the false idea that circulates through the world that women call false rape. The historic events that I mentioned above arose from a society that did not allow for interracial relationships to occur, and people were punished greatly. People were using Black people as scapegoats for wanting to express themselves sexually. In any case, historically Black men have been painted as highly aggressive sexual beings. So with the rape analogies continually being used in reference to Pres. Obama’s Health Care reform shows an obvious reliance on racist ideals that developed through slavery. This I find disgusting and extremely inappropriate that society cannot recognize the language they are using towards a man of color and not be aware of the racist undertones. This goes back to Biden’s comments on how “well-spoken” Pres. Obama is and all of the other comments thrown around in 2007-2008. Subtle racism is something that is being thrown at the President like candy in a parade, but no one is checking to see if it is laced with anything.
At the end of this little “masterpiece” we see that the cartoonist cannot stop kicking a horse when it is down, “Get yourself cleaned up. I’ll be back ----CapNTrade, Immigration Reform, whatever. And I’ll bring friends.” Skrrrrrrrrrrr! Hold – on, what? The cartoon is threatening, no actually, promising to come back and gang rape Lady Liberty? With the icing on the cake now on, the cartoon decides to throw in a few sprinkles of racism again, with the Immigration reform bill. When many Americans think of immigration, now thanks to media representation and the Conservative Right, many automatically think of “Mexicans” or Latinos. So, what the cartoonist has done is perpetuated another racist ideal about minorities being aggressive and sexually uncontrollable. Tisk. Tisk.
My question for the day is, when will people learn that sexual assault is not something to use for the butt of their jokes, or the punch line in their comedic performance to further oppress people? Rape is not funny, gang rape is not funny, and perpetuating harmful ideals about minorities is not funny. What is funny is how ignorant this cartoonist is that they would think that this is appropriate or even acceptable to produce. This cartoon is just another coal in the fire of sexism, which burns just as bright as it did before Pres. Obama “raped” Lady Liberty, and obviously before Pres. Bush destroyed our economy…but my rant on sexism and capitalism is another blog. For this to end, we as a collective need to call out the racism, misogyny, and victim blaming and bring it to the forefront of our national narrative. People need to understand that sexual assault is never anyone’s fault, and it isn’t a tool to punish someone. To play off a famous quote from feminist ideals, “The personal is political.” I would like to propose another version of this, “The personal is rape.”

Contributor: Zachary J. Stafford

Monday, March 8, 2010

DG Presentation


Just finished our first official presentation! We went to Delta Gamma's chapter meeting to provide information about STIs and healthy relationships. The girls were a great audience and a lot of important issues were covered. It was a really fun night and we loved hosting the discussion. Looking forward to many more in the future!

Friday, March 5, 2010

Sex: What do you think?

There are as many opinions about sex as there are people in the world... it is a controversial topic that surrounds us in our daily lives. Whether or not we are aware, sex plays an important role in many decisions and actions. So what exactly is sex? Knowing what it means to you and what it means in different contexts is an important step in taking an active role in making healthy decisions.

What does sex mean to you? Is sex something that should be done in a monogamous relationship? Is it a fun activity that can be done between two people or is casual sex wrong? What role should abstinence play in sexual education or in your life? Let us know what you think!

Click on the links for a few articles presenting views on sexual activity. Debating the issue helps us all learn and develop viewpoints on sex and its role in our lives.

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Healthcare Reform












For information about current healthcare decisions and reform, visit this link.

Monday, February 15, 2010

Vaginas, Chocolate and a Monologue



The Vagina Monologues were a success!
Thanks to everyone that came out to support the show. All proceeds went to groups working to end violence against women. We had a great time and our anatomy quizzes were helpful (and most of the time puzzling) to many people. As a prize, we gave out signed copies of Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power & A World Without Rape


Saturday, February 13, 2010

Being a Role Model

It seems like as we grow up, a lot of emphasis is put on the idea of "role models". From a young age, we are encouraged to find a role model and learn from him/her so that we have someone to look up to and help create direction and purpose. As college students, we are in between childhood and adulthood and as we navigate the transition, some of us find ourselves in leadership positions and with it comes the responsibility of being a role model.

When it comes to sexual health, there are a few things to remember as you help others. Whether it is a friend, sibling, classmate or a stranger that comes to you seeking advice, a few things can help the conversation be safe, helpful and meaningful for both of you.

How to be an ally:
- listen and do not tell other people what was said during the private conversation
- be a resource (know of places to go for more services or offer to help look them up)
- watch your body language (most communication is non-verbal)
- be ethical and maintain boundaries
- do not make promises you can't keep
- be accessible
- be trustworthy
- remember, just because you had a similar experience does not mean that the person feels the same way
- don't call yourself an ally, just be one

For more information on teen dating violence, go to the CDC's website


Friday, February 5, 2010

Share Your Vision


Young Visionaries Contest

Contestants: People ages 18-30 who are actively engaged in shaping a world that supports free and informed choices about sexuality and reproduction and/or where health services and information is available to all

Challenge: Share your vision for a just and healthy life

Prize: $1,000 grant from International Women's Health Coalition

The International Women’s Health Coalition leads global and local actions to secure every woman’s right to a just and healthy life. They are working to create a world where women are free from discrimination, sexual coercion and violence, and have access to health services and information.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

VDay

Valentine's Day is just around the corner...
And it is a great time to think about the wonderful women in your life! All of us at SHA are celebrating by doing our part to end violence against women and girls. The Vagina Monologues are being performed at DePaul and we can't wait to go!

The Vagina Monologues
Feb 13 & 14 @ 8:00pm
DePaul Student Center
Tickets $10 on sale Feb 1-3 and 10-12
Proceeds benefit the Rape Victim Advocates, Apna Ghar and Take Back the Halls.
All three groups work to end violence against women in Chicago.

Join us in supporting VDay by purchasing a ticket and attending the event.


While we're on the subject of sexual assault, check out these very informative articles about how and when it happens Cycles Are Hard to Break: Disability and Domestic Violence

Touch and Go: How Groping Happens


Side note: we are a student group at DePaul, but are not officially sponsored or affiliated with the university. Our organization is made up of students who want to create a forum for discussion and education for other students.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Step 1: The Basics

The blog is in the process of being updated! All of us at SHA are organizing and getting ready so that we can provide you with fun and educational material.

A great way to start is to cover the basics of sexual anatomy. Knowing your body is the best way to stay healthy, happy and hands-on. With Pleasure: A View of Whole Sexual Anatomy for Every Body is a good resource for all of us who would fail a biology exam on sexual anatomy. Enjoy!